Study Me

San Antonio Dominatrix Mistrix Iris Sauvage wearing a vinyl coat and latex lingerie outfit

I am a genderqueer visual/performance artist and explorer of the taboo. My greatest passion is accepting surrender and submission to walk individuals through intimidating experiences, knowing that safety and consent is my utmost priority and that dark secrets will stay with Me.

I love crawling around in the minds of my subs and pushing buttons, watching them expand in front of Me, respond, and discover new parts of themselves, finding self-acceptance along the way. I believe that stories and truth shared in a safe space is how we rid ourselves of shame and grow as people. I'm incredibly honored by the trust and adoration of a submissive and am grateful for a relationship so special.

My Approach

I love to build relationships of trust and intense power exchange as well as capturing the beauty that unfolds through BDSM play. Devotion and consistency are rewarded heavily over individual sessions that are motivated purely by lust and shallow sexuality. Vulnerability, service, and financial spoils are the thanks for the education, experience, tools, and time that allow Me to pour Myself into giving to the fullest.

I love to play with femininity as a Burlesque performer and My masculinity through sadistic and sensual Dominance. As a Dom, I love to be called Sir and Mister Iris. I also allow for Mistress Iris.

I am genderqueer and pansexual. I accept worshippers of any race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender, class, age (provided the person is an adult), and ability. Time with Me is a brave space to explore, learn, and play without fear of judgment. My ideal submissive is respectful and spoils Me just as I spoil those that serve Me well.

My Adventures

I have traveled to 35 countries and all 50 states and love to travel for work as well. In My free time, I love fine (often vegan) dining, traveling to new countries and adventurous outings, learning new rope bondage ties and suspending Myself, challenging Myself with new skills and reading, pole dancing, performing at Burlesque shows, shopping for new toys and latex/leather, and indulging Myself at the spa.

Kinks & Limits

San Antonio Dominatrix Mistrix Iris Sauvage wearing nylon, pointing Their riding crop down Their leg towards Their heels, commanding you to worship them

  • This is a list that has yet to stop growing.
    Couples are welcome.

    ∙Medical/dental play
    ∙Bondage (Shibari, suspension, and Latex Straps)
    ∙Choking (Fantasy, Blood chokes, Breath Play)
    ∙Compression and mummification
    ∙Role play
    ∙Latex
    ∙Leather
    ∙Hosiery
    ∙Sounding
    ∙Electroplay (Violet Wand Kit, Cattle Prod, Taser)
    ∙Impact play
    ∙Humiliation (when requested and thoroughly negotiated)
    ∙Financial domination
    ∙Caging
    ∙Chastity
    ∙Predicament play
    ∙Service
    ∙Human furniture
    ∙Cuckolding
    ∙Blood play
    ∙Boot and heel worship
    ∙Water sports
    ∙Total power exchange (TPE)
    ∙Feminization and gender play/exploration
    ∙Sensation play and deprivation (Blindfolds/Noise Cancelling Headphones, Hoods)
    ∙Body worship (always with a clothing barrier)
    ∙CBT
    ∙Stapling
    ∙Leashes
    ∙Wrestling
    ∙Gagging
    ∙Nipple Play
    ∙Branding
    ∙Age play
    ∙Enemas
    ∙Needle Play
    ∙Knife play
    ∙Anal Play and P*gging
    ∙O control
    …and the list is ever growing

  • ∙Play that involves other people without their consent
    ∙Sexual services including but not limited to kissing and nude face sitting
    ∙A sub attempting to take charge and initiate an action towards Me by surprise